Today, I want to talk about all those bad behaviours that our students have during their class year. But apart from those bad behaviours, such as talking while the teacher is speaking, or being annoying between students, I want to focus on the only fact that from my point of view it's the most painful, which is bullying.
What we know about bullying is huge, but I understand the meaning of bullying as the group of bad and violent behaviours that make people to others, during a long period of time, because of cultural, personal or social differences.
This concept of bullying is a very complete one, and we can differentiate three types of bullying, which are social, physical, and online.
Online bullying is what we understand nowadays as cyberbullying, and it can be through different ways, for example, mails, texts, or apps of social media such as Facebook, Instagram, or WhatsApp. Cyberbullying occurs within a constant harassment from one person or group to another individual.
Due to the fact that every student has in their hands some type of technological device, it allows them to navigate through the internet, but also increases the possibility of suffering cyberbullying. This issue produces bad effects such as low self-esteem, being more anxious, or lack of concentration among others.
As future primary school teachers, we must take care of this issue, suggesting methodologies by working in groups. But these participants, from all the groups, must have different nationalities, cultures, pleasures… Also, we must design activities that allow our students to develop all their competences, making them more confident and more useful in their work class.
Types of cyberbullying
Cyberbullying can occur within lots of types of harassment, which we mention a few of them here:
Mobbing: It consists of constant harassment at work. Most companies have web pages which also show personal information of their workers, which can lead to them being susceptible to bullying.
Grooming: It consists of an adult person faking his identity to establish a friendship with another person, most of the time being minors. The objective of the adult is to force the minor to send personal information or photos. We can consider this cyberbullying because of the treatment the minors receive.
Sexting: It consists of blackmailing a victim with the intention of receiving sexual content from him/her, and sharing it without consent through social media.
There are even more types of cyberbullying, but every one has the same purpose: to force a person, most of the time a minor, to share personal information by blackmailing him or her and share that same information through social networks, all of which can lead to being mocked or criticized. Those actions can lead to the victims to have depression, anxiety, or even dangerous traits such as being self-harmed or commit suicide.
Keeping in mind how dangerous cyberbullying can be, we, as teachers, have the role of making our students learn about how cyberbullying can manifestate through social media and how to use the Internet safely, like not sharing personal information, identifying which people can be trusty or not, etc.
After looking for some context to learn more about bullying and the different types, we have seen the next video. Now we are going to write a short paragraph which contains our ideas and comments on how to deal with cyberbullying in primary schools.
This entry is about a video named Sticks & Stones, which is a short film about bullying. In it, we can see a blonde girl who has suffered bullying; and she has been mocked by her friends and school classmates. As a result, she is seen during the video with a deep state of depression; the main consequence of being bullied. Bullying is not only physical, it can also be psychological; and affect our feelings and point of view of our environment. Depression appears as a state by being bullied psychologically.
As we have commented before, the girl in the video has a deep state of depression. She only wants to be far away from other people: not only the bullies but also family, friends or teachers. The place she appears to be more comfortable is a lake, in which only her appears to be.
At some points of the video, we can see her mother cyring next to a photo of the girl, and near the end of the video we discover the saddest fate: the girl hanged out herself and commited suicide. The video then finishes with an advice which says:
"44% of suicides in the UK are a result of bullying. 20% of Secondary School students say they have seriously considered suicide within the last 12 months."
The analysis of this video and the first theoretical part, we consider that we must give some advices, alerts and steps to superate and achieve an environment in which work.
First of all, we consider that if we want to teach our students about something in particular, we must teach them information about it. So the first thing will be to see what cyberbullying is.
Secondly, we consider that both parents and teachers must have good communication with children and, above all, know which pages they visit and if something suspicious happens.
To continue we must alert them of the risks that the network entails and that you are not invading their privacy, but protecting them since you are responsible adults.
We also believe that we must make adults see us as trustworthy people, who can be trusted if some strange event occurs or they are being intimidated by another person or child.
In short, they must know the risks and know that there are people who do not have good intentions. We must also maintain active surveillance and intervene as soon as possible.
Sources: https://www.stopbullying.gov/bullying/what-is-bullying
https://www.stopbullying.gov/cyberbullying/what-is-it